How To Handle Criticisms

Criticisms is not such a nice thing but its a fact that come with life itself. Whether it is coming from your family members, your friends or even from your friends, it is never a great feeling. If you are finding it difficult to deal with criticisms, am happy you came here.

In this post today, i will be dishing out some helpful ways to help you overcome criticisms. Rejection comes with criticisms which leaves one with lasting bitter taste. It often comes with bitterness, anger, hurt, sometimes most people feel crushed and miffed.

During those times you are being criticized, you should know that hitting back is not going to solve it.

try not to not take those critics words so personal.

Don't react aggressively to him/her Don't try and immediately prove the other person wrong. Instead trying to react to the critics, take out time to find out how and where the critic gathered the information. If the critic have the right information, don't be too scared to asset yourself.
Try as much as possible to ensure the information gathered is unbiased and accurate as much as possible. Take some break to calm down and think about the information very well. Where confusion sets in, ask calmly for further explanation. Check if there was a misunderstanding from the source.

Consider whether the intent may have been to deliberately hurt you. Come back to the conversation and start by

calming stating that you've thought about it

carefully. Give the giver of the message some credit

for starters, even if it is for offering you an

opportunity to reflect on the situation and to discuss about it calmly.

Say what you think about the situation kindly, but

assertively.