Communication in relationships/marriage is a vital key to successful union between you and your partner. It helps in understanding your partner more. The first you will take in learning how to effectively communicate with your partner is by focusing on where your communication pattern comes from. In marriage you need to know how to listen to you partner that will make him/she feel heard, how to keep quiet when a conversation is getting heat up, in order to avoid angry outburst. How to avoid being or talking rude to your partner. In any case what ever you say to your partner say it with love. Knowing when to say things to your partner matter a lot, don't try to talk about a sensitive and difficult subject when the house is not settled.
You can make a date and go out to nice places where you will feel comfortable and discuss. When communicating with your partner, especially men make sure you go straight to the point. Don't say more than what you are supposed to say, If you see he is loosing interests get back to the point. If you keep complaining about one thing or the other or keep talking about problem he will loose total interest in your words. When you are in a discussion with your partner and he/she is not looking at you then they are probably not listening to you.
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