How To Deal With Insult.

Dealing with insults is not easy though, but you have to analyze the situation and get to know what the other person is saying. Are they trying to intimidate you, make you look stupid, make you feel incompetent in front of other people or are are they trying to pass on a helpful message. In any case, you should think and analyze why and where exactly the message is coming from, is it meant to help you succeed? these are the things you need to ask yourself before you react to any insult. Now try to know where the insult is coming from, is it from your home, your work or school? Which ever way is coming from, use the location from which the insult is coming to analyze and plan your next step. If you are in the midst of others, like a social gathering or just a public hangouts with friends, then you should try as much as possible to get others on your side, start with a joke, think about what you will do to make them laugh in order to win them to your side, stand beside your friends to look stronger and bolder.

But even if you are the only on e around and you are receiving the insult, don't just just appear weak. You could make a speech like, ''Whats wrong with you? speech. Another best tip is just to walk away if you can. The best way to avoid the situation, is to never allow it to happen at all. When the other person seems to come off hard, kindly ask them what exactly they want. Most times asking people questions like, Are you trying to hurt me, is enable to make them back off. Another thing is response, if you could speak to the person insulting you,immediately or after, if you get the chance to speak to him/her in private. Politely tell the person that you find it hard digesting his/her words and wound'nt like to hear such words from them anymore. One sure possible response you could use anytime is, I am quite sure you never mearnt what you said, but i felt very hurt hearing those words from you. Could you stop from saying such words to me from now on